理性vs感性

过去，
一直都只有道理的存在，
理性从不放任感情的胡来，
为了只是要以理服人，
一切都必须有道理，
那么它才是真理，
从来都没发现感性的存在。
一段波折之后，
感性的他萌芽了，
它开始推翻了理性的过去，
寻找着另一片天空，
让过去的理性开始停滞，
开始动摇，
因为他一直在不断地成长，
导致理性都无法再控制他，
让他在思想中乱窜，
让单面的思绪产生双面，
虽然掩饰了感性的行为，
却不然的流露出感性的面容，
微弱的理性，
你能回来吗？
振作吧！
觉醒...

自由

找到了，
就是在寻找着他，
自由，
心里所渴望的，
不想被束缚，
不想被捆绑，
要的就是这种生活，
不受拘束，
不受限制，
这是事物的规律性，
自然的实践，
也是自己意志活动的权利，
已不是资产阶级的想法，
毕竟不是资产阶级也有自由，
宗教、政治与社会，
是枷锁、是条规，
它局限着世界，
也局限了自由，
不过，
它的存在是好的，
自由不能泛滥，
却在心中根存，
渴望、盼望、期望，
自由的到来，
就是自我的追寻。

涌现

又来了，
它找上我了，
思绪的杂乱，
不断地涌现出来，
怎么会一直不断地出现？
自由、未来、理性、感性、接受、承担、空虚......
各种不同的观念，
在思考着，
不断地在脑海里浮现，
又是人生观，
又是道德观，
它们在思绪中活跃的窜动，
失眠、紧张、迷乱、憧憬......
一一的开始影响着、战斗着，
到底追求的是什么？
有点累，
却躲不开，
只有任它在心里回荡着、洋溢着，
任它摆布，
愿停止的到来，
但却是遥远的事，
期待着...

感情

人生中，
在意的东西很多，
定义、利用、朋友，
其中穿插也就是感情，
这是个难以面对的东西，
不知是逃避，
还是抗拒，
虽然他时常不尽的涌出，
但还是把他收藏到最深处，
虽然如此，
还是希望它能够受到了解，
不管是过去，
还是现在，
希望一切都不变，
仍然保持那种温度，
让他持续的成长、萌芽，
不会陌生，
因为陌生了的东西，
再也就无法挽回，
送些碳吧！
它是个保暖的工具。

*不管在什么地方，
希望一切仍然保留着那一丝暖意，
持久不变。

堕落

堕落了，
想要放弃一切，
什么都不想做，
虽然说已到了尾声，
但依然不想坚持，
每段努力过后，
都会需要有个休息的阶段，
在那阶段之后，
仍然处于无力之中，
是否真的还能撑下去？
撑下去的目的是为了什么？
就只是为了逃脱那社会的捆绑？
还是自我的放纵？
希望，
希望这一切能保留到最后，
直到梦想实现为止。。。
*沉沦的世界*

信任

不管是在亲情、爱情，还是友情当中，
信任，
它是一种彼此间因为相信，
而给予的一种托付，
所以，
当你身边的人，
没有隐藏的把事情告诉你时，
那就代表他对你的信任，
因此，
你也必须给予他一定的信任，
毕竟，
不管是亲人、朋友，还是爱人，
彼此间都必须存在着这样的一种信念，
那么相处时才不会出现裂痕，
在此，
希望不管是谁，
都能够给予自己的所爱一份信任，
从而减少磨擦，
维持关系。

*属于你的东西，
在怎样的情况下，
他仍然会守在你的身边，
当他开始动摇时，
那你也只有选择放手，
毕竟关系也无法再维持长久。

To be a pessimism, and not to be optimism (final speech of public speaking)

There are nothing right and wrong in our societies with its binary situation and position, so that, in my final speech, I will do an opposite action to ask you to be a pessimist and not to be an optimist.

First at all, do you know what pessimism is? Actually the pessimism is come from a Latin word “pessimus”, the meaning is worst, and it is a state of mind which negatively colors the perception of life, especially with regard to future events. And then, the optimism is the opposite meaning of it. And so, most of the people they will just ask you to be optimism and not to feel so sad about something because they think that the pessimism is always sad, sorrow, suffer, panic and also bringing a lot of negative influences. But, if you are thinking like this, then I have to tell you that you are totally wrong with it, and actually the pessimists are not just always feels sad, and the sadness is not accompany with pessimists, because pessimists are just thinking a lot of things and trying to solve the problem. In fact, maybe their face gestures are just seemed like sad but they are not sad. So, please do not affect by the people who always ask you to be optimism because actually pessimists are not as the people said.

In the definition of the pessimism, although it is mean worst, but actually it is having a lot of advantages to be a pessimist and in the working place it is also got priority. Throughout the history, pessimistic disposition has had effects on all major areas of thinking. And now, I will show you what are the advantages of pessimism and actually the pessimists are the minority in our society. So, there is a picture that filled with half glass of water. What do you think about it? Is it half full or half empty? Actually this is an investigation that to test whether you are an optimist or pessimist. According to this theory, the half full is represented as optimism, and half empty is pessimism. In this investigation, most of the people will say it is half full and it is show that the half empty is minority, so I will use the snowball effect with the advantages of pessimism to convince you again.

At the beginning, do you know pessimism have different types? Actually, it can be philosophical pessimism, environmental pessimism, cultural pessimism, psychology of pessimism and so on. First, the philosophical pessimism, it is similar with the definition of pessimism, but not identical idea that life has a negative value and world is not as bad as it could possibly be. Although they think about the worst part of the future, but they are not trying to believe it. Second is the environmental pessimism, it is believed that environmentalism is inconsistent with the capitalism, and so they will always think that the resources of the earth will disappear one day, but the capitalism will not. Thirdly, the cultural pessimism, it will show us that golden age of culture is the past, and current generation is fit only for dumb down and cultural careerism. They are using the cultural to be a selling point of our society. Lastly, as the psychology of pessimism, we can know that pessimists maybe will suffer with their emotional pain or even biology with their consideration, but they are often providing arguments and their understanding to the reality of the world. According to this kind of pessimism, we can see that they will think about the future, cultural, environmental, and society with their scarifications of mental depression.

In addition, I will show you some cases and the contrast between the optimism and pessimism. First, we can use the first war as an example and people are having positive action to start the war, because they just think that war can bring them the lands and mines, and never think about failure, with this, they are holding the optimism mind. And then, it had caused some nations collapse with the invasion and the death of people. But to the pessimism, they think about the consequences, failure and the entire different situation, and then, they will not start the war with its foresight. It is reduced the war between the nation of the world. And then, the 911 terrorists attack and the May 13 of our country, the attackers are also having the positive action to show the people that they still can do such the things to show their power. It is all because of the optimism mind to cause this kind of issues happened. Maybe it is all about the affairs, so I will show other cases in the working places.

According to the business research studies show that pessimism has helped us to see things more accurately and also increases our perception of danger, sensitizes us to the potential problems. Besides that, it is also shows that pessimists are generally better than optimists at remembering negative feedback, judging how much skill they have, and sizing up the extent to which they either succeeded or failed. And the book, called “Ratio” is also show that when they want to come out a price, the optimists are less accurate in their assessments and expectations than the pessimists. Furthermore, there are still a lot of novels are edited by pessimists such as the Lust caution and The hours, their authors, Zhang Ai Ling and Michael Cunningham are also pessimists, and their works were awarded by Pulitzer Price and Oscar. So, all of this are showing that the advantages to be a pessimist.

At last, I think that it is good to having pessimism mind and become a pessimist although it is minority. It is because the pessimists will think about future and the consequences of some events, and also like to sacrifice themselves to the society and the company. Once again, is there a half full or half empty water in the glass? Confusing now? So, I think you will also be a pessimist as well, thank you.

*Acctually, in our society, it is need to have both pessimism and optimism, because we need to have the pessimism mind to think about the future and the consequences of a lot of issues and social problems, but it is also need the optimism mind to make the action to be positive with the bipolar and binary situation.

疑问

这天，
听到了一个疑问，
你接受同性恋吗？
如果抛弃人权，
抛弃科学的角度，
以你个人的想法，
你是否接受？
对于这样的课题，
是在中学时期从未碰处过的题目，
上了大学，
才知道这种爱恋的存在，
有人说，
爱一个人，
不是喜欢它的性别，
而是喜欢它的个性，
我不否认这样的形式存在，
但很多时候，
同性与异性的爱恋，
它是被划分的，
如果在没定义之前就被划分了，
那么，
对于他来说是否合理？
沉静的想着，
到底它是什么样的关系？
什么样的过程？
是命运改变了它？
还是环境的造就？
依然无法回答，
只有等待真相的显现。

隐私权

“隐私权是指自然人享有的私人生活安宁与私人信息秘密依法受到保护，
不被他人非法侵扰、知悉、收集、利用和公开的一种人格权，
而且权利主体对他人在何种程度上可以介入自己的私生活，
对自己是否向他人公开隐私以及公开的范围和程度等具有决定权。”

对于这个权利，
他是属于人身基本权利的一种，
乍然间，
好像觉得这权利给剥夺了。。。
有些东西，
虽然说没有把他当隐私来收好，
但在阅读或观看之后，
请向当事人请示，
毕竟你是在没得到允许的情况下，
把别人的信件给看完了。
因为你这种行为，
已经侵犯了别人的隐私。

侵犯隐私的行为包括：
1、侵扰被害人的起居和私密，
2、公开受害者困窘的事迹，
3、发布使大众对受害人产生错误印象，
4、为自己的利益借用他人名誉。

所以，
其实你已犯了第一项条例，
希望你能对此感到愧疚，
不再重犯，
别让我背弃你这个朋友。

*至少在之前或之后，都必须让当事人知道，别让人默默地去发现，虽然说它不被隐藏。